By March of 2007 I had gotten an idea of this so-called chicken list, which still scares me, and had been consumed by the idea of wasting time in a job search.
Here’s a post I wrote in March of 2007 about making sure your honey-do list doesn’t take time away from what you should be doing in a job search:
Last week I encouraged you to get your Chicken List out and make “that” call – the call that has been scaring you.
That encouragement does not transfer over to your Honey-Do list.
A job search is more than a full-time job. You almost have to create the wheel, and reach deep inside yourself to do stuff you haven’t had to do for a long time (create a resume, create elevator pitches, etc.). Its hard to change your mindset from “sell my company’s product” to “sell myself.” And then on top of all of this, you are the one that has to execute the strategy! Its a
So why do you think that you can knock things off the honey-do list? I know, you are now “
working from home.” And you “ have time.” And you “ need a break” from the job search.
I know you have a hole in the wall. I know your toilet needs some work. I know you should really paint, or
weed, or change wallpaper, or shampoo the carpets so you can have a better work environment.
But none of those things are really going to get you closer to getting your next job. Or next client.
So put the Honey-Do list away
until the weekend. Pretend that your new job (that is, the job of finding a job) has you tied up from early in the morning until dinner time – and stop fooling yourself that doing honey-do’s right now is a good use of your time.
Disclaimer: I’m not trying to be sexist, or offensive. This post is not intended just for those in a job search. You know you have some kind of list that distracts you from doing important stuff. If you don’t have a “honey,” I bet you still have your own “to do” list. Same thing. And finally, this is not a ticket to not do anything that needs to be done. I’m just saying that there are some things that are not as high a priority as working on your job search (or career management, or small business development, or your job – even if you are underemployed!).
Reading that post now makes me wince a little. That is some harsh advice. You can tell where my mind was at. The message is important. You can
see Deb Dib’s insightful comment here.
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